10 Random Valentine’s Day ideas
You know something? Valentine’s day is cool and all but honestly I’m not a big fan. I believe when it comes to your “significant other” every day should be Valentine’s day. However this is LoveIsConfusing so I feel as though I’m somehow obligated to talk about arguably the most lovey dovey time of the year. Valentine’s day is a special day to some people so I have some ideas for you. I am going to have alot of fun with this. I present with you 10 random idea’s for Valentine’s day.
#1 Reliving your first date.
Yeah yeah this is cheesy. But I think it’s very romantic. Depending on how long you’ve been together and I guess the experience you had on that first date it can be a really nice to stroll down memory lane. Say you went out to eat. You can be extra and order the same exact thing you had on that date and wear the same exact outfit. I mean if you both even remember. But like I said its romantic and maybe it will rekindle those old feelings that made you fall for each other in the first place.
#2 Zoning the world out.
This is very simple. Both of you request off from work. Turn your phones off. TVs off. Matter fact all electronic devices off. And from the time you wake up to the time you both get some shut eye. You do this crazy thing. It’s almost mind blowing to be honest. You both…..communicate with each other. Yes I said it talk to each other the whole day.
About anything and everything All the attention goes to each other. For 24 hours nothing else matters. When it comes to adulting, working and raising children sometimes it may be hard you and your love interest to just sit down and talk. Valentine’s day is more than expensive dates and gifts. Sometimes the best is gift is simply giving each other attention…..imagine that.
#3 Random Date
Speaking of random ideas how about you have some random adventure. Go some where that’s out of both of your comfort zones. I don’t know maybe a strip club. Or maybe an opera or even a play. Hiking, skiing etc. You know just something new or fresh. It’ll bring out the thrill in both of you. Doing the samething or going to the same places can get repetitive. Dinner and a movie gets played out very quickly. You might like it or you might hate it but at least you’ll have a story to tell.
#4 The old forget what day it is trick.
Okay I have a warning. You may get punched, cursed out, cheated on, hell you might even be single on Valentine’s day. So follow my “advice” at your own risk. Now that I’ve got that disclaimer out of the way. Basically you play dumb for the whole day like you don’t know what day it is.
I won’t tell you how to do it cause that’s where the fun in it lies. But I guess I can give one suggestion. You can ignore them the whole day or act busy then bam at the end of the day surprise them with a gift they always wanted. They will either be extremely happy or will be packing their bags. Hey I didn’t say this idea was full proof
Cmon you know this had to be in the list too as cliche as it is. What better way to end your day than to be on your knees proposing to bae. It doesn’t get anymore romantic than that especially if you really suprise her. Like you know take my horrible advice from the last paragraph and ignore her all day just to suprise her with a proposal. She’ll probably go crazy. That is if she is still your girlfriend by then. Another sidenote there is a risk to proposing…..she could say no and ruin your Valentine’s day so there’s that. Propose at your own risk.
#6 Spice up your sex life
Earlier I talked about going out of your comfort zone on dates and such. Well the same can be said about sex. Sometimes you go through a routine and things get boring. How about trying something new. Whether its something simple as trying a new position or a new form of foreplay. Role playing, strip poker or Truth or dare like a couple of teenagers. Hell I don’t care if you get busy in the back of a movie theatre or on the top of a Ferris Wheel. I don’t suggest it but hey just try something new. And for all the freaks thats reading this like “amatuers I’ve done all of this.” I’d give you a cookie but quite frankly I don’t know what you would do with it.
#7 Friendly Competition
In a relationship it’s all about being a team. Fighting together all that good stuff. But sometimes you want to simply go against each other. Show the other who’s boss. Show the other who the better “half”is. Whether that’s in video games, bowling and especially paintball, where you can get sweet revenge for him not noticing your new outfit you wore for him or her nagging you about taking out the trash. This is your chance to be petty. Or you can join forces, have a double date and destroy that other couple that thinks they’re so great. Team work makes the dream work.
#8 Breakfast in bed
You know what the key to a mans heart is?…Food. Do you how to bring a glow to a woman’s face?….Get her some damn food. Point is people like food. Who would have guessed that? What better way to start the Valentine’s day then to wake up to some good food. You don’t have to be a master chef or anything. It’s the thought that counts. Even if its less than appetizing they will still appreciate the effort. Now they may scrape it in the trash while your back is turned but trust me your actions will have made their day.
Sometimes it’s nice for you and your boo to just get away. You don’t have to travel to France or some Island. You can go on a mini road trip together. Or somewhere secluded in the city where you can sit and watch the sun set or count the stars together. You can go where ever the wind or road takes you. Have a little adventure, record it. Just make sure you don’t get lost. Even though finding your way back will be an extra layer to add to the story.
#10 Reflect on your relationship.
This one is more of a serious one. Maybe towards the end of the day after you two has enjoyed your little Valentine’s day. You both can take turns to reflect on your relationship so far. Tell each other what you love about the other and what you love about the relationship. And then be honest and tell each other what more that you may want out of the relationship and out of the person. A relationship is never perfect but you can always improve on it.
Valentine’s day is just a day. You can do these on any calendar day. I actually encourage you to strive to do things like this everyday if you can. I had tons of fun writing this I may write one more Valentine’s day themed post. Much love to all of you. If you have any of your own suggestions comment below. Like, Share, Subscribe and remember “Love Is Confusing But We’ll Get Through It Together.”