Men and Women: Four Double Standards

Men and Women are we really that different? (Double Standards) ¬† ¬†Last time I wrote I spoke about stereotypes in relationships. This is part two of “Men and Women: Are we really that different? I suggest you take a look at that first if you have not already. https://loveisconfusing.com/2017/08/07/menwomen-are-we-really-that-different/. We’ll wait for you……..Okay there are Read More…

Men and Women: Are We Really That Different?

Men & Women: Are We Really That Different?(Stereotypes) Alright now I think I gotten the generic topics out of the way and now its time for me to set myself apart. Maybe be a little more controversial. Now on to my point. As a society we love to divide things, race, politics, religion, sexual orientation, Read More…

The Hard Truth About Change

I’m sure at some point, whether it was in a friendship, relationship, marriage etc. Either you have tried to change someone or someone has to tried to change you. Whether it was change for the better or for the worse. Now usually I just give my opinion but this is fact. The truth is….you cannot Read More…

Why I Hate The Talking Stage!!

Ok, when it comes to anything having to do with a relationship or pre relationship the talking stage has to be personally my most hated stage. I’m sure I have referenced this in my earlier blog post and hopefully to everyone this doesn’t come across as a rant.          Now in a Read More…

Love vs Lust

  Before I start I have to give a shout out to my friend Kimberly who gave me the idea for this post. Thanks for the support!   This may have a similar feel to my other post “Love Vs. Obsession” if you haven’t read it you should it…NOW! We’ll wait for you………..ok now what Read More…

Cheating: What exactly is Cheating?

   I think its safe to say that everyone has either cheated or been cheated on at some point in time in a relationship. Now I know there are some people like “but but Xavier I have neither cheated or been cheated on!!”….That’s great you want a cookie or maybe a gold star? But in Read More…

Is Communication The Most Important Part of a Relationship?

Remember when I said honesty was the most important part of a relationship…….well ironically I wasn’t being completely honest myself. If honesty is a major key then communication has to be the lock or the keyhole.     I never knew how important this thing was, in my little teenage years my idea of communication was Read More…