I’d like to thank the men today for being apart of this article. Even if it was like pulling teeth to get this information from you. But I understand for us men it’s tough for us to be open about things like this. Showing our “sensitive” side I guess. But I really appreciate the collaboration with all of you.
I asked these men, “How do you like to be spoiled by women in a relationship” and here are their responses.
Steve Ransom
“I’ve done it all for women but the greatest thing you can spoil them with isn’t money or material items it’s three things attention, respect and affection. I believe woman can agree on this that would love it if their man spends time with them agree on this that would love it if their man spends time with them or just be around I believe those three are the key to any relationship also the greatest way to open the door for intimacy as well.”
James Knight
“I’m simple, a date night once a week sounds good. But I can’t really say though because I don’t know what it’s like. I’m usually the ONE that does the spoiling.”
Donovan Quinn
“What I would like from my women is someone who can help me become the best version of myself. I think we should be able to help each other grow and that process should be fun as well. I think communication is very important because that is how i stay on the same page with my significant other to make sure we are growing the same direction. And I also expect to receive head every Thursday at 7 am. But most importantly I feel like I expect respect and value. Feeling valued is very important because no one wants to feel unappreciated.”
James Bullock
“I like getting spoiled by my wife in a few different ways. One I like when she takes cares of things around the house like washing and hanging up my clothes and cooking dinner. She always prepares my lunches every day and makes sure I dont have to worry about going hungry because I often have 12-18 hour days.”
Dom Lundy
“Hmm I never really thought about being spoiled but if I really had to think on it there are a lot of things that I do look forward to making me happy when I’m in a relationship and the main one is communicating I think if she talks to me everyday like at night it gives me a chance to sleep with less in my mind. Food is major I love a woman who can cook and makes sure I’m fed. I know I’m like a kid but that’s definitely a way to steal my heart cooking and baking and finally I know I’m gonna sound like every other dude but I at least need sex on Monday it’s a good way to start the week not cranky stress relieved and I’d be able to put my best forward though out the week I’m really complicated but If a woman does that for me I’d feel special and spoiled and I’d definitely do things for her.”
Dimitar Mrkojevic
“Yes, I love when she cooks for me and massages me, and just spends one on one time with me.”
Xavier Young
“I think I get spoiled by all the little things. Just giving me the attention, the love and respect that you would usually give your man is enough for me……BUTTT that’s the boring response. Gifts are always dope. I love spontaneous gifts and surprises and yes by suprises I mean the sexual kinds as well. Women that cook are a blessing. Food is definitely the key to my heart. Massages are great especially if they result in a “Happy Ending.” I even feel spoiled when things are tough and she’s there to listen to me blab about whatever I may be going through at the moment. Communication is also very important to me.”
In Conclusion
After reading the responses I got. I’ve realized that we all pretty much want the same thing, Men and Women. We both want affection. We both want communication. We both want love. We may have our own personal little quirks. But we all love getting spoiled by our significant others and spoiling eachother from time to time is a sign of a very healthy relationship….as long as it’s not one-sided.
Again thanks for all the guys that helped out. Also if you enjoyed this you’ll also enjoy “How do women loved to be spoiled”
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