It seems like more and more people I see are either narcissist or exhibit narcissistic tendencies or traits and that goes for men and women. I don’t know if it’s because of the generation we live in now where everyone wants to be the center of everything and craves attention. Whether thats through social media or through other outlets.
The traits of a narcissist can be extremely toxic to the people around them. And the closer you are to them the worse it will be. Which is why dating or potentially marrying one can be very dangerous. For this particlar article I will be highlighting women. Alot of you guys may be with a narcissist woman and don’t even know. Some of you may have already dealt with one or even several of these types of women. But without further ado I present the 5 Traits of a narcissistic Woman
The Center Of Attention
The narcissistic women tends to lack empathy and self awareness. Because of that she can be extremely delusional. She truly believes that everything revolves around her and always have to be the center of attention. She gets jealous quickly and hates to share the spotlight with anyone.
She will alienate you from your friends, your family and anyone you hold dear. She has to be the only one in your life. She’ll employ many tactics to keep you from seeing friends or love ones. She’ll start random arguments before you leave. Then there is the silent treatment to make you feel guilty for leaving and she may even coax you into sex just to keep you home and by her side.
She’ll chastise you over little things like not liking her pictures on social media. Or over not giving her enough attention and a narcissistic woman can never get enough attention. Because of that she will question your loyalty because of it. If she feels as though she’s lacking that attention from you.
She’ll have no problem getting it from someone else. She may either break it off with you and date someone else. Or if for some reason she can’t easily break up with you she will just talk to other men behind your back. Or even in front of you if she is bold enough. If caught she’ll claim they’re just friends. Or she’ll play the victim role to guilt trip you.
The Walking Victim
The narcissistic woman tends to have a defense mechanism whenever she is called out on her bs. She turns into a victim. A Walking Victim is what I call it. It’s a very powerful card that she can play to flip the narrative on anything. You catch her in a huge lie, she plays the card. You catch her destroying your property and take her to court, she plays the card. You catch her in the act of fucking another guy on camera with three other eye witnesses, yes you guessed it. She will play the card.
She will never take the blame for anything she does. If you and her break up. It will always be your fault no matter what she did. If you ask her about her past relationships she will never tell you what she did. However she will give you a very detailed explanation on everything her ex or exes did to her.
She is incapable of accepting blame or criticism. She will turn everything back at you. Or change the subject. Or bring up things that has nothing to do with the conversation. When she gets caught and she isn’t able to control the narrative she may have a meltdown where she’ll cry or even react violently. If that happens ALWAYS leave quickly.
Bow Down To The Queen
The narcissistic woman is very self centered and looks at herself as a goddess. She expects everyone to worship the ground she walks on including her man. She expects him to “Bow Down To The Queen” She doesn’t look at her man as an equal she sees him as a servant like everyone else.
Or at times she even sees him as competition. She can be very high maintenance, superficial and materialistic and comes across as very entitled. She’ll also downplay that by telling you that she’s spoiled or likes to be spoiled. That’s a red flag.
Her image is very important to her so when she dates, the only men that she considers are men that are positive for her image. Her standards are very high which isn’t a bad thing. However she doesn’t date for love she dates to impress her friends and family and even strangers. You see she gets off being the center of attention. So she uses you as her trophy man. Someone who makes other women jealous including her friends. Someone she can take pictures with on Instagram so she can show off to everyone.
As I said the narcissistic woman sees herself as a goddess. If you don’t “Bow Down To The Queen”. She will find you very replaceable. It doesn’t take much for her to find another servant. If you don’t kiss her feet and shower her with infinite praise she will just find another guy to do it. Narcissist in general are takers not givers. She will take everything from you and suck you dry. And move on to the next man when she gets bored with you or finds another man that has more to take.
Negative Energy
A Genuine Woman has the ability to give you power and give you life. The Narcissistic woman however is an energy drainer. She takes from you and gives nothing in return. Her life is full of drama. She exudes nothing but negativity energy. That she covers up with self grandeur and seduction to fool her man.
Because she’s often the center of attention she will get herself into many problems. Problems at the workplace, problems outside and problems online. She will put all of that negative energy on you venting her frustrations and because she’s a walking victim. Every problem she has will always be someone else’s fault. She is very negative often belittling people and tearing them down. Very quick to judge and criticize others even people close to her such as family and close friends.
Master Manipulator
The narcissistic woman can be very dangerous in many ways. I even think they can potentially be more dangerous then their male narcissist counter parts. If a narcissistic woman knows what she can get away with. She can ruin your life, reputation or in some situations even end your life. And will move on and have no real sorrow or empathy afterwards.
She can play the victim and turn her friends against you. Or even turn your friends and family against you. She can control the narrative alot easier than her male counterpart. She can control it so well that she can paint you as the toxic one in the relationship. She’ll have everyone thinking you are the bad guy. That you are the one that doesn’t appreciate her.
She may lie and form stories about you to sway favor to her side knowing that people will believe her. Even sometimes going as far as telling people that you physically abused her or did other things to her that could lead to you yourself being hurt or even arrested. The narcissistic women is definitely some thing to avoid.
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