No matter how much she may love her man. No matter how much bullshit she can tolerate. No matter how kind she may be. Every woman has a breaking point. A point where she has to let go to hold on to her sanity. Where she has to let go of the baggage and…..Leave. By why does she leave? There are many reasons why she may be pushed to that breaking point. And in this article I will be breaking these reasons down.
Lack Of Attention
Attention is something that is kind of downplayed by us men. Sometimes when women wants attention from us in our relationship, we look at them as annoying or we look at them as simply “acting out”. We disregard their feelings not knowing how important attention means to them. Some men think being intimate or simply having sex is all the attention that his woman needs.
Not taking into account the other things such as listening to them after they had a hard day of work. Or listening to them vent about something that may have happened to them during that day or week. Attention isn’t just listening it’s also communicating. Opening up to them. Telling her about your day. Telling her your goals. Hell even talking about the goals for your relationship.
If she’s not getting attention then depending on the type of person she is. She will either tell you. Or she will show you and hope that you get the message. If you don’t get the message than eventually she’ll get tired of telling you or showing you and she’ll reach her breaking point. And eventually she’ll leave and find someone else that will give her the attention she wants.
Disrespect
Disrespect is another reason why a woman will leave. However it’s usually consistent disrespect over a period of time which brings her to her breaking point. What is disrespect though? It can be alot of things. Consistently undermining her decisions, Putting people above her, Name calling, trying to control or change her. Being disloyal, Lying to her or withholding the truth from her.
Some women may tolerate it. Due to love, Low Self Esteem, or even just to keep the family together if children is involved. But at some point they eventually get tired of being disrespected and they leave the man behind.
Outgrown Her Lover
People overtime change. The games you played when you were younger may not be quite as fun when you’re older. With that being said. Sometimes a woman is with a guy for a long period of time. Maybe they started dating as late teens and now they are adults. However he still acts like a kid and does childish things. And is very irresponsible.
She may look towards him for leadership but realize he is still stuck on being a kid or she may have to be in that leadership role herself due to him not being able to handle it. The problem gets even worse if there is a child involved and she has to do all of the work because the man is still stuck in his ways.
She Has To Do Everything
I’m really suprised because I see alot of relationships that are so one sided. Where the woman is making the money, cooking, cleaning and the guy is kind of just……there. Y’all go out to the club she got to buy the drinks. You go out to eat she has to pay for the meal.
If a woman loves you she may tolerate it for a little while. Especially if you lost your job or something bad happens. But if she sees you are not being ambitious or looking for new work and is just trying to mooch off of her. Eventually she’ll get tired of pulling all of the weight. And she will break things off with you.
Sex Game Is Weak
……Do I really have to go into detail????
She Doesn’t Trust You
It takes awhile to build up trust with someone. However it only takes a moment to lose it. And once you lose it. It’s almost impossible to truly get it back. A healthy relationship is built on trust. When you do things like lie to her or withhold the truth. It destroys that foundation.
Some woman tolerate men that lie because of the rush she may get from catching him in his lie. But even if she tolerates it she still won’t trust you and even when you are telling the truth she still won’t believe you. But eventually she will get tired of playing detective with you and questioning everything you do.
Now cheating can probably be it’s own topic. But cheating is perhaps the ultimate form of breaking trust. And while there are alot of women who may tolerate cheaters. Eventually they are either going cheat on you back or break things off with you.
She Gives Everything
As I said before, sometimes a relationship can be extremely one sided. In the case of a woman sometimes she can give everything she has in a relationship while her partner gives nothing. She wears her heart on her sleeve and gives all the love she can. As I said in an earlier article “LOVE is LOYALTY and SACRIFICE”. She sacrifices everything for her man and remains loyal but she doesn’t receive that same gratitude from him if she even receives it at all.
Especially if she is dealing with a man with strong narcissistic characteristics. People like this only know how to take. Giving back is never an option they don’t know how. And these kind of men tend to prey on women with strong hearts that love to give. Eventually she’ll keep giving and giving until she has nothing else to give. And when she becomes drained she’ll leave.
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