Three Steps To Loving Yourself

Three Steps To Loving Yourself    “Love is Joy. Love is Pain. Love is Selfish. Love is Sacrifice. Love is confusing”….. If you have been paying attention those words are written at the top of this page and yes that is my hand up there. That phrase and the contradictions of the sentences explains the Read More…

Liebster Blog Award: Nomination 

      I feel very honored, seriously I do. Over the past month or so I have been getting so much love from my readers. I enjoy the feedback. I love the comments and I am overwhelmed by the support from everyone. It’s been great so far.  Speaking of support earlier this week something amazing Read More…

Men and Women: Four Double Standards

Men and Women are we really that different? (Double Standards)    Last time I wrote I spoke about stereotypes in relationships. This is part two of “Men and Women: Are we really that different? I suggest you take a look at that first if you have not already. https://loveisconfusing.com/2017/08/07/menwomen-are-we-really-that-different/. We’ll wait for you……..Okay there are Read More…

Men and Women: Are We Really That Different?

Men & Women: Are We Really That Different?(Stereotypes) Alright now I think I gotten the generic topics out of the way and now its time for me to set myself apart. Maybe be a little more controversial. Now on to my point. As a society we love to divide things, race, politics, religion, sexual orientation, Read More…

The Hard Truth About Change

I’m sure at some point, whether it was in a friendship, relationship, marriage etc. Either you have tried to change someone or someone has to tried to change you. Whether it was change for the better or for the worse. Now usually I just give my opinion but this is fact. The truth is….you cannot Read More…

Why I Hate The Talking Stage!!

Ok, when it comes to anything having to do with a relationship or pre relationship the talking stage has to be personally my most hated stage. I’m sure I have referenced this in my earlier blog post and hopefully to everyone this doesn’t come across as a rant.          Now in a Read More…

Love vs Lust

  Before I start I have to give a shout out to my friend Kimberly who gave me the idea for this post. Thanks for the support!   This may have a similar feel to my other post “Love Vs. Obsession” if you haven’t read it you should it…NOW! We’ll wait for you………..ok now what Read More…

Cheating: What exactly is Cheating?

   I think its safe to say that everyone has either cheated or been cheated on at some point in time in a relationship. Now I know there are some people like “but but Xavier I have neither cheated or been cheated on!!”….That’s great you want a cookie or maybe a gold star? But in Read More…

Is Communication The Most Important Part of a Relationship?

Remember when I said honesty was the most important part of a relationship…….well ironically I wasn’t being completely honest myself. If honesty is a major key then communication has to be the lock or the keyhole.     I never knew how important this thing was, in my little teenage years my idea of communication was Read More…

Honesty Is Key!

Honesty honesty…honestly I don’t even know where to start. This could possibly be the most important part of a relationship. Honesty leads to trust and without trust you got nothing. Well actually you do have something. You have a giant problem on your hands. Imagine waking up to someone who knows everything about you. Tells Read More…