This is a post for all my brothers out here. I’m about to drop some top secret knowledge. Most woman like to be spoiled by their significant other. And if you read the title you know that’s what I’m going to be talking about…..Nah, I’m kidding I’m sure my audience is tired of hearing my voice.(well reading my voice)
Instead I have Actual women here to tell you themselves ways that they love to be spoiled. All of these women are very accomplished. Some are friends. Some are family and some are very great individuals that I’ve had the honor of working with prior to this post. I hope everyone enjoys this post and men pay attention you will learn something.
Lastly I ask while you are scrolling to also check them out if the interest you. Most have links to a business or website. I ask that you show some support for these great women. Now without further ado I’ll stop rambling and allow these these women to speak, enjoy.
Kimberly Knight|Model/Poet
https://www.instagram.com/mixedbreed_20/
” Well how I Love to be spoiled with ATTENTION and Love that means more then the gifts cause gifts go away but the Love you can’t replace that or that ATTENTION you get from that special person”
Siedah Speaks|Author, Self-Love Coach/Blogger
http://iamlovexo.com/
“Something so simple as LISTENING and RESPONDING with understanding. As us woman are more emotional and very vocal. We desire the space to SPEAK and be UNDERSTOOD. That is the ULTIMATE INTIMACY to me that should be practiced more in relationships.”
Keke Waldon|Author,Relationship/Fashion Blogger
https://kekethefuturewife.com/
www.misskeyzbeautyreview.com
“I like to be spoiled with COMMUNICATION and QUALITY TIME. Once a week having DATE NIGHT is good and throughout the week calling and texting daily is what I like more than getting gifts, though I would love a nice gift.”
Pamela Cummins |Author, Dream Interpreter, & Intuitive Love Coach
www.successfulrel.com/
When it comes to being spoiled, my man has shown me the LITTLE ACTS OF LOVE are showing his BIG LOVE for me! Whether that is cooking an egg sandwich on Sunday mornings, knowing where to scratch that itchy spot on my back, and still opening the car door even though we have been together for over seven years. – Pamela Cummins of Successful Relationships
Anna Jailene Aguilar|Writer/Blogger
annajaileneaguilar.com
“My love language is service (or functional, I suppose). I forget the exact 5 languages. Anyway, I show my love by being of service or performing a function for love. Thus, I kind of expect the same from someone who loves me. If my partner helps out at home without being asked, I feel the love. Being spoiled is slightly different then. I do like gifts (my second language) but it’s a special way to show love for me. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but I will never say no to a diamond. *chuckles* I love fashion so any fashion item counts as love gift. BUT, the best spoiling is when I get coffee in bed, or dinner is COOKED for me and all I have to do is eat. (Although I may end up doing dishes.) To show love and to spoil someone you love does not have to cost money. It definitely does not have to be the most expensive gesture.”
Shemekka Ebony|Motivational Speaker, #IAmBrilliant
Iambrilliant.org
I like to be ADORNED by his love and acts of love…that’s the best spoiling ever! He COOKS, he SHARES house responsibilities and we run our businesses together. He is very active in my community work. We do that TOGETHER too!
Dominique Cheeseboro| Artist
“I just like being held and having all their ATTENTION even if it’s just for a moment…..I dream to be spoiled with UNCONDITIONAL love ……an ATTRACTION that spark that is very hard to find”
Ms. Queen Ro|Relationship Blogger/Author/Podcaster
www.msqueenro.com
“I enjoy “acts of service.” I’m a busy, single Mom so when something like TAKING OUT THE TRASH or going GROCERY SHOPPING is done w/out needing me or even better NOT ASKING me…that is spoiling me.”
Ufuoma Jennifer Esegine| Life Style Blogger/Author
https://kingingqueen.com/
“The way I like my man to spoil me is helping me with my weekly skincare routine. I like exfoliating twice a week but at times i get very tired and will unable to get it done, and if my man OFFERS to help me do it, I’d love him to the moon and back. I am also this sort of fiercely INDEPENDENT babe. I like doing and buying things for myself. However, if a man offers to take me out shopping as a surprise, i would love it! When you are the one doing things for yourself for a long time and then your man comes along and then spoils you once every while, IT’S HEAVEN.”
Madeline Madeline|Beauty Youtuber/Make Up Tips
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChZLUvWQUDBVPRDNqdT429A
” I love it when my partner bring me food. I find it so THOUGHTFUL that he cares if I’ve eaten. I also like it when he surprises me with SPONTANEOUS outings like a picnic or a drive along the coastline.
Obviously a big one is when he gifts me with makeup because he knows I’m passionate about it so the fact that he pays ATTENTION to and feeds my passion is great.”
Mary Bullock|Artist/Graphic Designer
“Uhm,that’s a good question. I don’t think I particularly like being spoiled but if I had to choose I’d say with flowers. Lol I know it’s simple but I like decorating my room with flowers. Or with SPONTANEITY I like it when a guy says “get dressed we’re going here” I’m very low maintenance. But I do really like it when a guy makes plans for us every once in awhile. No girl wants to always just sit around with their boyfriend watching Netflix.”
Rabecca Philips
“Well I’m not into all the expensive jewelry and gifts. I’m simple I like flowers and having someone cook for me. Ya know, RUB MY FEET and start some bath water.”
Krystal Dechamps|Accountability Coach|DivineDestiny
Divine-destiny.com
“I love being cooked for….a man that knows his way AROUND THE KITCHEN and can make me lAUGH has half the battle won”
Acacia Tarver| Lifestyle Blogger
www.naturalgirlblogs.wordpress.com
“I love the little things like flowers just because, SPONTANEOUS dinner dates, or just spoil me with your time.”
Allison Vue|Lifestyle Youtuber
https://www.youtube.com/VuePadin
“When my husband LET’S ME SLEEP IN for an hour or two longer while he’s up watching our daughter. Also, when he buys me chips and mango cherry Popsicle. And lastly, when he agrees to DO THE DISHES because I hate doing the dishes.”
Aspiring Journey |Lifestyle Blogger
http://www.aspiringjourney.com/
“I feel the most loved and appreciated when my love language needs are met. My love languages are Acts of Services and Quality time. The fact that a person goes OUT OF THEIR WAY for me does not go unnoticed. I’m happy that my door is always being held and my gas always gets pumped. I enjoy going to the several different beautiful parks we have in our community, watching Netflix , or going on weekend”
Ritu Kaur|Writer/Author/Blogger
www.butismileanyway.com
“When your man takes full responsibility for the kids morning routine allowing the tired mother to have a true rest. That would make me feel spoiled!”
Aamber Lanae Sanchez
Being spoiled by your spouse does not always consist of materialistic things. It is from WITHIN THE HEART that really matters. Things like quiet evenings at home with no distractions just intellectual – HEARTFUL CONVERSATION with one another, movie/dinner night at home, a picnic at the park, or even flowers from time to time. Being in a committed relationship should evolve around PEACE, HARMONY, TRUST, and most of all LOVE. What a person can do for you is bound to change at any given moment. Appreciate the LITTLE THINGS and never take anyone for granted! -Aamberflowers from time to time. Being in a committed relationship should evolve around PEACE, HARMONY, TRUST, and most of all LOVE. What a person can do for you is bound to change at any given moment. Appreciate the LITTLE THINGS and never take anyone for granted! -Aamber
Chantelle Jeffers|Lifestyle Blogger
www.onesinglemission.com
“I like to be spoiled as much as anyone else and the ELEMENT OF SUPRISE or adventure is always a massive bonus. This could be as extravagant as a Michelin star restaurant or ski trip to a simple break from the norm, walk in a place of natural beauty, special delivery, MOVIE NIGHT or CANDLE LIT BUBBLE BATH. I would appreciate it all.“
Shy Roper|Blogger/Baker, Unique Decadence
https://uniquedecadence.wixsite.com/website
“I don’t like to be spoiled. Sure it’s nice to be catered to, but I’d rather do the spoiling. Not necessarily financially, being as there is more than one way to spoil someone. BUT if I had to choose, I would like a MASSAGE or even a FOOT RUB every now and then. Maybe a WARM BATH when i come home from work. Spoil me with EMOTIONAL and I will be just fine.”
Shenae Steward
“I love to be spoiled with time and ATTENTION Spending quality time is worth so much more than any materialistic thing. I like to be showered with attention I like to feel like I am the only one in a room full of people”
Charde Love|Decorator/Event Planner
https://www.instagram.com/My___ways/
“I think it’s really simple just doing what a man is supposed to do in a relationship. Like treating you to dates and making you feel special. Always having his attention on you first and always putting his ladie first”
In Conclusion
I’m extremely thankful for all the support I got from everyone. I’ve honestly learned alot. Some responses suprised me. Others made me chuckle. All of them made me smile. Attention, Spontaneity, Listening, Communication, Quality Time..and of course the foot rubs. These are the words that I noticed kept popping up. It’s amazing how things that may seem so simple. Can mean the whole world to someone.
But this definitely helps me alot moving foward with this blog writing wise. I ask you again to check these women out. I know some personally and some professionally but what they all have in common is that they are ALL hard workers. Much love for the women that participated and much love to you all. Like, Share and Subscribe and remember. “Love is confusing but we’ll get through it together.”