Fours ways to keep a man happy? Cmon, Men are simple creatures. Just give us good sex, good food, no nagging and a little bit of space from time to time………Thats it. Article over thanks for reading! 🙂 Subscribe!……
Fineeeee. I won’t do that to you all. Men are indeed more complex than that. Not as complex as Women though.(Still can’t figure you out ugh) Also I suggest reading my latest Article “What Is A Man: 5 Traits of a Real Man.” These are the kind of Men I’m talking about.
Be Supportive Of His Down Time.
When a man is bored typically he’ll play the video game. Watch the football game or basketball games or go hang out with his boys. You know, guy stuff. That’s our down time. That’s our time to chill. And that time may intertwine with the time when you want attention from us. It may make you mad or annoy you. It may even seem like we are ignoring you. Or not taking you serious at the moment. But you have to understand. (And again im talking about Men not boys.)
Sometimes we just have alot of stress and need to detox for a few hours. And yeah I get it ladies. We do have the option of going to you and just venting out our problems. But sometimes we just don’t want to talk at the moment and just want escape for a little bit. We might be mentally exhasted. We may work long hours. Or just have to deal with alot of bullshit during the week. And yes I know so do you.
Do you know the feeling you get after a long ass day. When you can finally take your bra off and throw it somewhere and sit down and drink a glass of wine…..That’s how we feel when we get in the house and pop in Call of Duty or turn on the Lakers game. You should be supportive of his down time. Let him breath a little bit. Then when he’s done “decompressing.” I’m sure you’ll get his full attention.
Show Him That You Appreciate Him.
Guys love it when their woman does something that shows her appreciation for him……the difference between a man and a woman is how we will react. You buy a woman flowers and a gift or do something amazing for her that she never seen coming. She may cry and she’ll be glowing and smiling for a week. You do something similar for a man. He’s like “thanks babe” all dry. He’ll probably crack a smile and…that’s it.
No tears, glow or nothing. But what you don’t know is the whole time we’re giggling like school girls and probably blushing on the inside. But we won’t let you know that. Why? Cause we are weird like. That’s all you need to know! The crazy thing is. Whenever we do hang around our male friends we’ll bring it up. Bragging about what you did for us.
All jokes aside we really do love it when we feel appreciated. Even down to the very small things. Like when your woman start “stealing” your slang or wearing(stealing) our t-shirts or hoodies. Or even posting about us on social media. Y’all really don’t know how much the little things you do mean to us.
And it’s men’s fault cause alot of times we act like it’s not a big deal when we know it is. We have alot of pride and we need to work on that. But trust me showing your man how much he’s appreciated will keep him happy for sure.
Make Him Feel Important.
As a man we want to feel important in your life. We don’t want to feel like we’re just……there. We want to feel like we have a purpose. So even though you may not always need us. *SHOUT OUT TO THE INDEPENDENT WOMEN!* We are still gonna bring heavy grocery bags in the house for you, hold doors for you, offer to pay the check on dates and offer head without you asking. Please let us do that. A mans happiness in a relationship should be from making his woman happy and of course vice versa.
Another thing that guys probably won’t tell you or admit to is that we low-key love it when a women puts us on to new things. If you’re cooking dinner and your man doesn’t know how to cook. Bring him in the kitchen. Have him help you cook. Have him cut up something. Or stir something add a little seasoning(make sure he put too much lol) and motivate him and encourage him the whole time like its a big accomplishment because of course us men can be big babies and we need it. He’ll feel like he’s helping you out and will be happy because of that.
Sex…..
I mean did you really think this wasn’t going come up. Yes it’s very important to us and it does keep us happy….very happy. But that’s really no surprise at all. A couple that has sex regularly will be alot happier then a couple that doesn’t. That’s facts. As men we may not tell you be we love the flirting the foreplay and most importantly we love suprises.
I’m not saying you have to be the freakiest person in the world. But we love that spontaneous shit. Head without asking for it. Coming home after a long day and you laying in the bed with lingerie.(well we don’t care for the lingerie we going to it off anyway but we appreciate the effort) And like I said earlier men lowkey love being put on to new things.
Try out new positions or new locations. Hell if you can find out something sexual he’s never done before and surprise him.(nothing toooo crazy though) Shoot he might be the one “Glowing” the very next morning. But things like that will definitely keep your man happy.
In Conclusion
I still think Men are pretty simple. But we do have our weird little quirks. And if you like this Article. Also check out “4 ways to keep her happy.” Whether is Men or Women the goal of a relationship is always to keep eachother happy. There may be arguments, drama and “beef” from time to time. But at the end of the day you are both a team. A relationship is both parties sacrificing to make the relationship the best partnership it can be. Like, Share and Subscribe and remember “Love Is Confusing But We’ll Get Through It Together”.