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What do women expect from their Man?

What do women expect

What do women expect from their man in a relationship? Is it love? Faithfulness? Respect? Great sex? I don’t have the answer to this question. However I asked multiple women and they happily gave me their responses. Hopefully you guys will take notes as you’re sipping your tea and more importantly I hope you enjoy. Thank you.

Shy Roper|Baker

“I don’t have really “expectations” when it comes to my significant other. Be loyal, trustworthy, show me you love me, be my shoulder to cry on when needed but be that pedestal when you know Ineed to be lifted.”

Mary Bullock|Graphic Designer

“Well I expect respect because I feel like respect is needed in any relationship, romantic or not. You don’t have to like me, but you will respect me so I could not be romantically involved in anyone who disrespect me. With respect comes honesty as well. Like if my partner cheats on me, I except for them to have enough respect for me to tell me so I can leave they ass 😂 If you respect me then even if we break up, we will be on good terms”

Lamira Newsome | Army Soldier

“I try to keep my expectations on a mutual level. Meaning, I expect the same kind of effort put in our relationship that he would expect of me. I expect him to communicate with me, rather than run from any confrontations or look to other females for attention. I expect him to treat me as his queen. If a man knows how to treat his mother and sister’s then he should know how to treat his significant other. It goes both ways though, but I expect him to have consistency. Of course I expect him to at least have some kind of financial stability and if he’s not there yet, then the motivation and determination to get to where he wants to be. I may not be where I want to be yet so I wouldn’t expect him to already be there but I do expect him to push himself as well as push me to be better, and vice versa. Us females tend to expect so much from males that we have to remind ourselves that we too have our faults. We too are finding ourselves. I don’t expect my man to be all the way there in life when I’m not even there, but I do expect him to at least be on the same level as me.”

Kemelto Nesbeth|Writer, Blogger

www.kemaltonesbeth.blogspot.com

“Upon entering a relationship I sometimes keep my expectations a bit low just to hold back on any potential “let down” though, there a few qualities I hope that man would have. Currently being in a well-developed relationship, I can say that I expect my man to uphold with the qualities that he has portrayed since the first day we met to the very first time we decided to hit it off as a couple. I expect my man to be nothing but himself, to be sincere to me and our relationship and to do his part in the relationship as it takes two to make a couple. I expect his loyalty and his honesty. I expect him to see me as his rock and a shoulder to cry on whenever he needs one and to not be afraid to show me his emotions. To conclude, all I expect from my man is his pure genuineness.”

Shemekka Ebony|Motivational Speaker, #IAmBrilliant

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I expect consistent communication, reciprocity, released gender expectations, vulnerability, strength, and be the gift to heal me. Honestly, I had no expectations and was not lost or looking for a man to be in a relationship. I just described character traits of the King 👑 God sent to me to walk with.- @shemekkaebonycommunity

Brionna Edwards

“To be honest I expect what I give. What I mean by that I expect any man I date to be honest at all times even if the truth will hurt. I like to be spoiled by consistency a man that just does not because I need to tell him to or how to act. A romantic not oh let’s get high and smoke then talk can we talk while sober can he share his dreams with me open up to me and become just as vulnerable as I do for him? Most women want these things some want a guy who has it all etc. I don’t mind sticking by someone trying I want to be spoiled by having a connection outside of sex, weed or anything everyone does to open up. Can we just sit and talk about ourselves silly things our insecurities and reassure each other it’s all okay. I think for me being spoiled is having a man who doesn’t have a damaged masculinity.”

Ayanna Robinson

“The thing that I expect from my man in a relationship is HONESTY! Trust is like glass, very fragile and easy to break. What brothers need to realize is that women love HARD. You trust me and I trust you. You will be respected more if you just keep it 100. Two people cannot evolve together if the trust is not part of the equation.”

Jennifer Pompaski|Blogger, Writer

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I have been out of the dating game for a long time now. Years to be precise. The decision to remain single for the time being was “prompted” by a harrowing experience akin to Tyler Perry’s movie, ACRIMONY.

The experience made me question a lot of things. Relationship wise, that is. When Xavier said, I should participate in this “round up”, I agreed because this question is essentially what I have given much thought to especially after my experience.

Now what do I expect from a man in a relationship?

First off, I want complete and total HONESTY. Oh yes, you got that right. I believe a lot of relationships these days are built on lies and social media and technology isn’t helping! From what went down with my Ex, he never wanted to marry me. He used the “give me some time” clichĂ© to buy himself time. So definitely. I expect honesty from my man.

I expect the man to be the MAN. I was an emotional, physical and psychological blanket to my Ex, I was his neck, shoulder and his head. This may come across as funny or phony I know. Oh, hell some of you all are probably laughing and I wouldn’t blame you! I thought I was in love. In loving this guy, I lost myself! I became the man! Paying bills and doing all shit. Future husband, I expect you to be the MAN in the relationship. Thank you.

My man should also be able to take care of my NEEDS. Needs can range from emotional, physical (sexual and otherwise), financial and every other thing in between. I am the kind of woman who loves completely, body and soul, no holding back. I love with everything I have and I expect same from my man. He shouldn’t only be concerned about satisfaction in the “other room”, he should also be about satisfaction in the other rooms as well.

I expect a man to be able to handle his woman’s SUCCESS. I have noticed that a lot of men get threatened a lot by their lady’s success. This means that I expect a man to be CONFIDENT in himself and his capabilities as an individual.

Ashley Wolfe

“Well to be honest I want to treat him the way he wants me to treat him love respectful loyal faithful funny understanding fun.”

Keke Waldon|Author,Relationship/Fashion Blogger

https://kekethefuturewife.com/

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“I would expect honesty first off. It’s important to be completely honest with your partner. I also expect to have great communication. When you are honest and can communicate effectively with your partner then it is easier to trust them because you have been honest and the lines of communication is open and real.”

Rosanna Lundberg|Blogger, Writer, Author

https://pinaygoaldigger.com/

I believe we should set expectations in a relationship. Because I don’t think expectation means being difficult or demanding. It only shows that you know who you are as a women, you know your worth and what you deserve. And we should never settle for less.

And here are the 5 vital expectations I settled before I decided to marry my man.

1. Loyalty – My husband said ” I will never lay my hands on you and I will never betray you” and I expect him to do so. LOYALTY and TRUST is a foundation of a strong and healthy relationship. If you can’t trust your man that he will be loyal to you, then it will jeopardize your relationship with him.

2. Time – as other says Time is Love, and so am I. I know my husband and I are both busy with our career, hobbies and sometimes with friends. But we make sure to give time for us, and we talk about it. It should never be an issue if you truly love someone.

3. Genuine Intimacy – This doesn’t mean always about sex, but it’s deeper and more meaningful than sex. It’s about exploring and knowing more each other. A simple date night, or a simple kiss good night are some examples of a pure intimacy that makes our relationship deeper and stronger.

4. Communication – A real conversation is vital in our relationship. We never want a silent treatment, we make sure to talk about our feelings and emotions. Conversation with sincere listening and understanding is what I expect with my man and that makes our relationship more intimate and genuine.

5. Respect- I believe RESPECT is one important thing that we should expect from our man. We all have differences, but your man should respect you as person and for who you are. I am from the Philippines, and my husband is American, we have culture differences, but we respect each other’s culture and all many other differences we have.

Above all, we women should also do the same to our man, to make the relationship healthy and balance.

Thank you and best of luck to the LOVE that you all deserve!

Simone Reyes

“What I’ll consider as being spoiled is listening, quality time and going on a date or two a week communicate responsive.”

Aamber Sanchez

“Many people have different motives for getting into relationships. I myself crave emotional, compassionate, and intellectual vibes from a man. Let’s set goals, empower one another, have deep conversations, and build a healthy relationship. I don’t expect anything more than loyalty, honesty, and trustworthiness. Some may find money and sex as the key to a relationship but really what is that offering the two of you? Money cannot buy happiness and one can have sex at any point of time. I hope that you all take into consideration the things I have written upon when getting into a new relationship or even in your current.”

 

In Conclusion 

I like to thank everyone who participated and gave responses. Every one of them were absolutely amazing. I enjoyed reading them. And was actually surprised by the responses. “Honesty” and “Respect” were two words that seemingly kept popping up. Both are extremely important. Loyalty was another word that popped up as well. So basically to summarize. Be honest with them, respect them and don’t be out here cheating and everything will be alright. Like, Share and subscribe.

Also if you enjoyed this also check out “how do women liked to be spoiled” and “how do men liked to be spoiled”

And for the men what do you expect out of woman in a relationship? Comment below and you’ll be featured in the next article like this. Thank you and remember. “Love is confusing but we’ll get through it together.” 

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How Do Men LOVE To be SPOILED in a relationship

How do men love to be spoiled

I’d like to thank the men today for being apart of this article. Even if it was like pulling teeth to get this information from you. But I understand for us men it’s tough for us to be open about things like this. Showing our “sensitive” side I guess. But I really appreciate the collaboration with all of you.

I asked these men, “How do you like to be spoiled by women in a relationship” and here are their responses.

Steve Ransom

“I’ve done it all for women but the greatest thing you can spoil them with isn’t money or material items it’s three things attention, respect and affection. I believe woman can agree on this that would love it if their man spends time with them agree on this that would love it if their man spends time with them or just be around I believe those three are the key to any relationship also the greatest way to open the door for intimacy as well.”

James Knight

“I’m simple, a date night once a week sounds good. But I can’t really say though because I don’t know what it’s like. I’m usually the ONE that does the spoiling.”

Donovan Quinn

“What I would like from my women is someone who can help me become the best version of myself. I think we should be able to help each other grow and that process should be fun as well. I think communication is very important because that is how i stay on the same page with my significant other to make sure we are growing the same direction. And I also expect to receive head every Thursday at 7 am. But most importantly I feel like I expect respect and value. Feeling valued is very important because no one wants to feel unappreciated.”

James Bullock

“I like getting spoiled by my wife in a few different ways. One I like when she takes cares of things around the house like washing and hanging up my clothes and cooking dinner. She always prepares my lunches every day and makes sure I dont have to worry about going hungry because I often have 12-18 hour days.”

Dom Lundy

“Hmm I never really thought about being spoiled but if I really had to think on it there are a lot of things that I do look forward to making me happy when I’m in a relationship and the main one is communicating I think if she talks to me everyday like at night it gives me a chance to sleep with less in my mind. Food is major I love a woman who can cook and makes sure I’m fed. I know I’m like a kid but that’s definitely a way to steal my heart cooking and baking and finally I know I’m gonna sound like every other dude but I at least need sex on Monday it’s a good way to start the week not cranky stress relieved and I’d be able to put my best forward though out the week I’m really complicated but If a woman does that for me I’d feel special and spoiled and I’d definitely do things for her.”

Dimitar Mrkojevic

“Yes, I love when she cooks for me and massages me, and just spends one on one time with me.”

Xavier Young

“I think I get spoiled by all the little things. Just giving me the attention, the love and respect that you would usually give your man is enough for me……BUTTT that’s the boring response. Gifts are always dope. I love spontaneous gifts and surprises and yes by suprises I mean the sexual kinds as well. Women that cook are a blessing. Food is definitely the key to my heart. Massages are great especially if they result in a “Happy Ending.” I even feel spoiled when things are tough and she’s there to listen to me blab about whatever I may be going through at the moment. Communication is also very important to me.”

In Conclusion

After reading the responses I got. I’ve realized that we all pretty much want the same thing, Men and Women. We both want affection. We both want communication. We both want love. We may have our own personal little quirks. But we all love getting spoiled by our significant others and spoiling eachother from time to time is a sign of a very healthy relationship….as long as it’s not one-sided.

Again thanks for all the guys that helped out. Also if you enjoyed this you’ll also enjoy “How do women loved to be spoiled”

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Why Does She Stay?- LoveIsConfusing

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Why does she stay with him? Why does she stay in a toxic relationship despite the pain he puts her through? The unfaithfulness he continuously shows her. He puts her on a pedestal while simultaneously tearing her down. Digging at her self esteem. Telling her he loves her but in the next breath that she ain’t shit. Every time she tries to leave she gets pulled back. It’s like a perpetual cycle of events. And he knows she will come back. He knows she will stay. He has that control over her. He has her on a string. And she can’t break free.

Why Does She Stay

Her family see’s his deceptions. Her friends as well. As they have warned her before she even committed. Even his friends knows the kind of person that he is. They’ve seen other women he’s treated this way and also knows of all of his side chicks. They even warn her as well. Yet why does she stay? She still stays loyal. She still holds him down. Giving him her all.

Her body, her mind, and her soul. She see’s the good in him and wants to build him up. She wants to change him. She wants to tame him. While cuddled up, sharing blunts, he let’s his guard down telling her about his childhood struggles, his fears and insecurities. She sympathizes with him and in her head wants to fix him and make him a better man.

He Doesn’t Provide

Why Does She Stay?

Why does she stay despite her having to play both roles. Provider and caretaker. He drives her vehicle. Often cheating with other women inside. He lives with her rent free. She comes home from work tired and he asks her what’s for dinner? He stands behind her proud in the supermarket line while she buys the groceries and feels even more proud when he carries the bags to her vehicle.

He has no real ambitions, no real goals traps outside and plays games inside but yet she still sees potential in him and the potential compels her to stick with him. To the point where simple things becomes a huge glimmer of hope. Like him taking out the trash, paying for dinner, texting her first or even him going down on her without her asking. It gives her hope until eventually he goes back to old habits and the cycle continues.

He Hurts Her

Why Does She Stay?

Why does she stay even when he harms her? He strikes her during arguments. Choking her and grabbing her when he loses his temper. He apologizes afterwards often blaming it on him being bi-polar. After the fights they make up then the next day she see’s her friends, hiding bruises from family and friends. And the ones she can’t hide she lies about. Saying she hurt herself at work and she’ll be ok. He gets drunk yells at her. Demeans her and shames her. Telling her she won’t be anything without him. Telling her she won’t leave him while she’s drenched in tears. She thinks his abuse is a form of love. A form of attention.

Besides a short night of intercourse it’s the only attention she gets anymore. Yet she still stays. When things get too crazy she throws him out or calls the police screaming “she’s done!” She tells her friends and they roll their eyes but still gives her encouragement. In a weeks time he eventually moves back apologizing and telling her he loves her and he misses her and the cycle continues.

She Has To Always Compete

Why Does She Stay?

Why does she stay when she has to compete with other women? He likes their pictures on Instagram, and other social media. He talk to them on the phone in her presence. He sends naked pics on his phone and receives them. He walks down the block with her and women waves and hugs already knowing who he is. He tells her he doesn’t fuck with his baby mom anymore and ensures her that she has nothing to worry about.

He comes home late smelling like perfume telling her he was with his boys. She takes his phone and finds messages. Asking who is Keke, who is Brianna, Who is Ashley? She beats him up breaks his phone and cries but she stays. She doesn’t want to lose him. She doesn’t want to build him up just for another bitch to reap the rewards. Eventually she forgives him and even buys him a new phone, and the cycle continues.

He Controls

Why Does She Stay?

Why does she stay even though despite his cheating she can’t have any guys friends. Or even hang with friends at all. He sees her as his property and isolates her away from everyone even family. He tells her he’s the only one she needs. That he is the only who really loves her. That he’s the only one that cares. He pits her against her friends telling her that she needs to choose. Messaging her guy friends threating to harm them if they keep contacting her.

Constantly asking where she is. Monitoring her at every turn. She can’t go to parties or events unless he knows exactly where it is at. She see’s this as him caring and it low-key makes her happy. Even though despite that she still has a secret guy friend that she vents to. And occasionally fucks as a way to secretly get back at him and he’ll never know but at the end of the night she lays with him and the cycle continues.

Better Options

Why Does She Stay?

Why does she stay when she knows there are better options. A better future. Many men comes at her. Men with good jobs and careers. Men with goals and ambition. The friend she vents to as he watches afar knowing what she goes through begging her to leave him and give him a shot. Even her boyfriend’s friends unbeknownst to him tells her to leave him and get with them. However she blows them all off.

She’s afraid to leave. She’s afraid to start over. All her effort to fix him will go to waste. Would if these guys are just the same as him? Would if all men are just the same? Would if this relationship that everyone tells her is toxic is normal? Would if it’s her fault that the relationship is like this. Due to her low self-esteem she blames herself. She tells herself he cheats because of her, he beats her because of her. And if he ever leaves her it will be because of her. She cries every night next to him whispering to herself. “Why Do I Stay.” And the same cycle continues. –LoveIsConfusing.

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Infatuation Vs Love: What Is Infatuation?

Infatuation vs love

Love is confusing. That’s the name of this site and also the name of my brand in general. It’s also the whole purpose of this site to explain why love is so confusing. In the past I have touched on Love vs Sex, Love vs Lust, Love vs Hate, and Love vs Obsession. Today I will be sharing my brief thoughts on Love vs Infatuation.

What is Infatuation?

According to the Cambridge Dictionary. Infatuation is when “You have strong but not usually lasting feelings of love or attraction.” When you think of the definition it takes you back to high school.

Puppy Love

Infatuation vs Love

You know, when you were going through that puppy love stage of your life. Whether it was your huge crush on the most popular boy in school. Or as a boy you were sexually attracted to the cheerleader in your school. You were deeply infatuated with that person however it probably didn’t last long. Eventually you got over them and wanted the next boy or cheerleader. And that’s just highschool. People as adults do this all the time.

Typically when you first start dating. It’s all based off infatuation. When I touched on Love at first sight. I eluded to the fact that love takes time. And that when you meet someone usually it’s something that draws you to them. Whether it’s their physical appearance. Or simply how they carry themselves. It draws you to them and eventually over time it may lead to you loving them. Before that love kicks in. It starts out as infatuation or what most people call….Puppy Love.

Love Vs Infatuation

Infatuation vs Love

I feel as though you get similar feelings for both. To be honest you probably wouldn’t be able to tell the difference until some time has past. With infatuation the feeling can easily wear off and then you lose interest and move on to the next thing.

The problem is however that some people rush into relationships or even marriage thinking it’s love and then realizing quickly afterwards that it was just infatuation. The weird thing is most of the time love starts off as infatuation. So infatuation isn’t necessarily a bad thing. You just want to catch yourself because the feelings can be similar.

With infatuation it generally stems from, lust, sex, or obsession. It could be one of these three or all three of them. You have to ask yourself. What is the main reason why I am so interested in this individual? If it’s one of these three you could be just be simply infatuated with the person.

You tend to get hooked by this person even though you may know nothing about them. You put them on a pedestal painting them as this perfect person in your life. Thinking to yourself that you may have won the lottery or found that needle in the haystack.

Whether you are with the person or simply dating you tend to live in the now rather than waiting. You want to be with this person NOW. You want them to love you immediate and you want them to drop everything and commit to you at a moment’s notice.

With infatuation you only see how the relationship benefits you rather than how it affects you as a whole. You also may develop jealousy where even though you may not even be with the person yet that you’ll become angry at who he or she is friends with or even other people that they may be interested in besides you.

In conclusion

Infatuation vs Love

Infatuation isn’t always a bad thing. It could be something innocent as puppy love. Where you’re interested for a little while then you move on. However it could also develop into an obsession which I’ve touched on in an previous article. Ironically it can also evolve into love. I think at some point everyone eventually goes through that infatuation stage.

Think about the person you’re with now. You both were first infatuated with eachother got to know eachother and now you’re in a loving relationship or marriage. Thank you for reading. Like, Share and Subscribe and remember “Love Is Confusing But We Can Get Through This Together.”

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Black Is Beautiful…

Black is beautiful

“Black Is Beautiful.” As a person who is African American. I often hear this a lot. I’ve been told this as a child and has heard this phrase used repeatedly as an adult. “Black Is Beautiful.” As an adolescent I was proud to hear these words. I truly believed it and I still do. However as I became an adult I started pondering something. Why do we have to say, “Black Is Beautiful?” Shouldn’t that be something that is already known. Why does it seem like Blacks are the only race that has to do this? We have to continuously put ourselves on a pedestal.

Light Skinned, Dark Skinned Brown Skinned.

The answer is quite simple however. For all of our strength and for all our Beauty for all of the great qualities we have. We are still viewed in a negative light. Not only from people on the outside but also from our own inner circle. Light skin blacks, Brown skin blacks, and Dark skin blacks. What other race judges themselves from just their skin tone alone . Dark skin people are consciously and subconsciously taught that they are inferior while Light skins are taught that they are superior. Darkskin women are painted out to be angry, bitter loud and argumentative. The Pam to Martin’s Gina. Light Skin men are depicted as soft, overly emotion and crybabies you know the Drake type. “Black is Beautiful” that’s what we say but it’s obviously a divide in our community.

Gender Wars

Not only is there divison by skin tone but by gender. Our culture promotes disrespect between each other. Refering to our women as “Bitches” or “Hoes” even “Thots”. And Refering to our Men as “Niggas” and “Pimps”. Not only that but we treat each other like property rather than someone to love. As men we treat our black women as trophys. Something to say that we conquered. We listen to some rap songs that brain wash us into thinking that black women are only useful for sex.

Instead of glorifying her strength, her smarts, her wisdom. The music glorifys her body. Which in turn dictates how we look at women. If she doesn’t have a big booty or even big tits she’s instantly disregarded in our minds. Not only that but she grows up and gains that same mindset thinking because she doesn’t have those that she’s inferior to other women who do. It effects her self esteem. She’s questions her self worth. Sometimes even leading to surgeries. Just to boost her self estem. “Black Is Beautiful”.

For us black men our value in our black society is determined by how much we have in our pockets. However this can be said for almost anyone. The difference is our culture as a whole celebrates not only what you have in your pockets but also what you have on your body.

Our value is determined by brands. Timberland, Nike, Jordan, Polo, Versace, Louis Vuitton. No matter what your income level is. Whether we can afford it or not. As black men we feel we have to have these material things to show our value or to show we have style. As I said before our music praises brands and material things which conditions us to think we need them.

We’ll spend our last on a pair of Jordan’s to keep up with the guys around us. We brag about how much we spend instead of how much we saved or earned. Our black women are then conditioned to believe that that’s what a man is. She values a guy that has swag. She wants the brand rather than the man. The guy that’s balling. She wants the guy with the Jordans on his feet. The chains the jewelry and the watch. Someone like the guy she been crushing on while watching a music video. If he doesn’t have these things he could be disregarded and seen as not worth her time.

Our Perception

“Black Is Beautiful”. When I look at the perception of blacks mainly African Americans I realized something. When you look at us minorities and think about the stereotypes between all of us. You see something. A typical Asian stereotype is that they are good at math. That they are smart and get good grades, Respectful. A typical Latino or Mexican stereotype is that they are very hard workers.

But when you get to Blacks you don’t hear sterotypes like that. It’s more based on how high we can jump. How athletic we are. How good at sex we are. How well we can dance or sing. When you compare them you can see a difference. Rather than being looked at as people who could change the world for the better.

We are seen as entertainers. Someone who can jump high and slam a rubber ball in a net better than anyone. People that can rhyme words together and dance to a beat. And don’t get me wrong. I love sports. I listen to rap and RnB. But when you look at other minoritiy groups you see the difference in perception. The difference widens once you look at negative sterotypes. While other minority groups are looked at as hard workers, disciplined, and smart.

We are seen as lazy, dumb, and undisciplined. Our men are looked as horrible fathers, thugs and fornicaters, while our women are seen as angry, aggressive, confrontational. The crazy thing is this perception is not just on us from other races but we also perceive ourselves this way. And sometimes we act out in a way that we subconsciously believe that we are supposed to act. It’s a cycle of self hatred and self hurt that we as a culture has to change.

Black Is Beautiful?

Earlier I asked the question. Why do we have to say “Black Is Beautiful”? Well I have an answer. We have to tell ourselves “Black is Beautiful” because we have to remind everyone that we aren’t just sports athletes, musicians and rappers. We have to remind them that our black women aren’t just sex symbols and they are just as strong and important as our black men.

We have to show them that we are intelligent, hardworkers and that we can change the world. We have to show everyone that we aren’t the bad sterotypes that the media and movies potray us to be. That’s why we say “Black Is Beautiful”. However saying it is and all but before we can do that. We have to show them why “Black Is Beautiful”.

But it all starts with us. We have to convice ourselves first. This generational cycle and culture of self depreciation and self hate has to stop. How can anyone believe that Black Is Beautiful if we don’t truthfully believe it ourselves. We have to show each other love. This silly, light skin, dark skin and brown skin shit has to stop we are on the same team! These gender wars has to stop. You treat her as a king and she treats you as a king.

As far as our perception it will take time but if we change our culture maybe one day we won’t have to say “Black Is Beautiful” cause it will already be known to everyone. But until that day………”BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!” Like, Share and Subscribe and remember “Love Is Confusing But We’ll Get Through It Together.”

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